What is TOUGHLOVE?

The TOUGHLOVE program is an effective self-help program that empowers parents dealing with unacceptable behaviour.

It is a combination of philosophy and action, which together can help you gain positive control of your home again.

TOUGHLOVE is a network of parents helping parents to bring positive change into their lives.

How we work

• We are an inclusive support group for parents and carers

• We deal in behaviour, not in emotions, even though emotions are considered and respected

• We have a “process of change” that works, because what we are doing before was not working

• Nothing changes if nothing changes

• We cannot change others, only ourselves

• We offer support to help you to make changes – first for yourself and your wellbeing, and then for your child

We can show you that you are not alone. You have rights and worth and deserve to be treated with respect.

WE DO NOT TELL YOU WHAT TO DO! We can provide you with suggestions, hope, encouragement and sharing.

There are no prescriptions: you make your own plans and get support from the group to follow through with your decisions. If you don't know what to do we can help brainstorm and provide our collective experience.